There is a 90's song by Destiny's Child, derived from their first or second album titled "temptation". “I just sighed as I write this piece, thinking about how tempted I was to do something not so right yesterday, but felt appropriate nonetheless”. Something in me, said I shouldn’t continue with what I was about to do, it sad “maybe another time”. I was right!
A few hours ago, I realised why that little voice advised me not to be led into temptation and just let things be, I know I’m speaking in tongues, but one day I will revert to this subject and continue with it further,
Let’s just say I realised that special friends are important, and had I been led to temptation yesterday, I would have ruined a very important relationship and friendship respectively, without even realising the effects or what I could have done was not so right, yet not so wrong.
So, beautiful people, next time you are tempted to do something good (like a shopping spree, which is good for the soul) or bad, think about how you will feel the next day and what your actions will mean for and to your loved ones. Enough Said!
Monday, March 28, 2011
We are what we do
Are we really what we do? To a certain extent, yes! We often make decisions that we don’t thoroughly think about before taking decisions. Or sometimes we plan things carefully, but not necessarily in the best way. Nonetheless, I believe that the decisions we make and the things that we do make us who we really are in reality.
Two scenarios come to mind, if you participate in unsavoury acts with unsavoury people, you may start to think, act and dress like them. What people then eventually see is an unsavoury being that mixes with a similar crowd (after all you are the company you keep), your crowd in this case. And then eventually, you are categorised as an unsavoury person by citizens and you end being comfortable with the form of living, until something changes that.
Another scenario is if you are always a positive, giving and over friendly person, who wants to achieve and get results; people will start seeing you in such a way. And you too, start feeling this way, as you exude positive energy. What you do makes you who you are, and to a certain extent, how people view you, makes you who you are – for some anyway.
Next time, I advise you think thoroughly about your actions, association and change them if you feel like it. But don’t do it for people, do it for you.
Two scenarios come to mind, if you participate in unsavoury acts with unsavoury people, you may start to think, act and dress like them. What people then eventually see is an unsavoury being that mixes with a similar crowd (after all you are the company you keep), your crowd in this case. And then eventually, you are categorised as an unsavoury person by citizens and you end being comfortable with the form of living, until something changes that.
Another scenario is if you are always a positive, giving and over friendly person, who wants to achieve and get results; people will start seeing you in such a way. And you too, start feeling this way, as you exude positive energy. What you do makes you who you are, and to a certain extent, how people view you, makes you who you are – for some anyway.
Next time, I advise you think thoroughly about your actions, association and change them if you feel like it. But don’t do it for people, do it for you.
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Trust
When do you know when NOT to trust a person? The world is filled with ugly hearted people, even so funny; that I posted on Facebook yesterday, that I have stopped being nice. One of my Facebook friends however, thought I was thinking irrationally and that I should not change my character because of certain incidents that occur in my life.
I was unpleasantly surprised, at how a trusted friend could betray me. I will however admit that the friend does not know that I found what is going on in their mind and what they have done (to me). I sound like a scorned soap character, don’t I? Okay, on a serious note then, trust between friends is extremely important, between, family, your lover, soul mate and colleagues. For any relationship to continue successfully, trust comes a long way and believe that the feeling should be mutual at all times.
I still do not understand why people feel the need to be fake- it makes the world such an ugly place to live in. if you don’t like a person for some odd reason, either confront the situation or let them be, do not try to pretend that you have their best interests at heart and go bad mouthing them behind their backs.
Remember- God is watching and ticking.
Have a great day ladies and gentlemen!
Much Love
Thabo
I was unpleasantly surprised, at how a trusted friend could betray me. I will however admit that the friend does not know that I found what is going on in their mind and what they have done (to me). I sound like a scorned soap character, don’t I? Okay, on a serious note then, trust between friends is extremely important, between, family, your lover, soul mate and colleagues. For any relationship to continue successfully, trust comes a long way and believe that the feeling should be mutual at all times.
I still do not understand why people feel the need to be fake- it makes the world such an ugly place to live in. if you don’t like a person for some odd reason, either confront the situation or let them be, do not try to pretend that you have their best interests at heart and go bad mouthing them behind their backs.
Remember- God is watching and ticking.
Have a great day ladies and gentlemen!
Much Love
Thabo
We are afraid of the wrong things
We are afraid of the wrong things and reason in our everyday lives! Christian’s believe in the teaching of fear no evil and fear no one but God! This is so true in my opinion, and I believe that we should not fear or live our lives in fear, bluntly putting it. We tend to overlook certain things and hold back and some even fear rejection and failure.
I suppose there is nothing really wrong with taking your time to accomplish your goals; after all, there are so many reasons why people never accomplish tasks. These can momentary reasons, emotional matters and fear among others. Fear is an ugly word that I would confidently say I do not use quite often- well I try anyway.
We should not fear about tomorrow holds, about what could happen and could have happened. Trust God to take care of what you think you cannot manage- as the saying goes, God will never give you a task you cannot handle and I believe this is true. Trials and tribulations are only meant to make you a stronger person. Do not fear what your heart can’t handle, sometime, alternate between thinking with your heart and thinking with your brain. I say "Do not be afraid!"
I suppose there is nothing really wrong with taking your time to accomplish your goals; after all, there are so many reasons why people never accomplish tasks. These can momentary reasons, emotional matters and fear among others. Fear is an ugly word that I would confidently say I do not use quite often- well I try anyway.
We should not fear about tomorrow holds, about what could happen and could have happened. Trust God to take care of what you think you cannot manage- as the saying goes, God will never give you a task you cannot handle and I believe this is true. Trials and tribulations are only meant to make you a stronger person. Do not fear what your heart can’t handle, sometime, alternate between thinking with your heart and thinking with your brain. I say "Do not be afraid!"
This is Love
One of my ultimate favourite songs is by Kelly Rowland, of Destiny's Child fame, from her second and most successful album, the song aptly titled "This is Love". I was once a firm believer and giver of love until my heart was broken so badly more than I even want to remember, in fact! I will admit though, what I may have missed is that 3 of those heart breaking times were not the real thing. Real love – I now believe, only comes twice in a lifetime, my first effort at the game came and went, and now I firmly believe and trust in God that my second is on its way.
I once read some very interesting words about love. The reading went as follows; in your life you will find one person, your forever love, your forever friend. This person is your soul mate, your one true love, and your best friend. The Love between you will go beyond words, and be spoken deep within your eyes. This feeling, this connection, will never be broken. They will truly show you that forever, means forever!
This was very touching, so much that I decided to look at love in a very different context. I now look forward to the love of my life. In fact I am very excited
I once read some very interesting words about love. The reading went as follows; in your life you will find one person, your forever love, your forever friend. This person is your soul mate, your one true love, and your best friend. The Love between you will go beyond words, and be spoken deep within your eyes. This feeling, this connection, will never be broken. They will truly show you that forever, means forever!
This was very touching, so much that I decided to look at love in a very different context. I now look forward to the love of my life. In fact I am very excited
Fish falling from the sky
So the sayings go, when pigs fly, once in a blue moon and fish falling from the sky. So many people often use these statements, what exactly is the deep thought and meaning of such statements? What would your interpretation of fish falling from the sky be? When I think of such a statement, the first thing that comes to mind are free things and opportunities coming your way, the sky being the limit and reaching for your dreams but most importantly, making them a reality.
Fish often fall from the sky for all, well for most humans anyway. But often, we tend to neglect such opportunities that come our way, be too comfortable in our comfort zones and forget what our full potential is and what it can be. I admire those souls who grasp at everything opportunities that comes their way at every given time.
Fish fall from the sky (from God as some and I believe), but it would be time to consider changing your old habits and making your dreams a reality. There are many opportunities for everyone, in every sector, expand your horizons and be who you have always wanted to be, if you have already- I say well done to you!
Fish often fall from the sky for all, well for most humans anyway. But often, we tend to neglect such opportunities that come our way, be too comfortable in our comfort zones and forget what our full potential is and what it can be. I admire those souls who grasp at everything opportunities that comes their way at every given time.
Fish fall from the sky (from God as some and I believe), but it would be time to consider changing your old habits and making your dreams a reality. There are many opportunities for everyone, in every sector, expand your horizons and be who you have always wanted to be, if you have already- I say well done to you!
Tuesday, March 8, 2011
Fashion vs Style
Fashion and style are often confused by most. I understand that for many, not having either is the least important thing in their lives. Yet, some of life's material things are treasured by some. Let me take some time and share some of my fashion thoughts- a subject I truly enjoy. I think everyone should have style, in fact there should be absolutely no excuse for people not to have some style if they have a daily encounter with people.
The difference between the two is that fashion is very high end, comes and goes and can sometimes only be pulled off by the brave. On the other hand, style is more timeless, is necessary for all to have and can actually boost your self esteem. From a psychological perspective, people perceive you by the way you dress (more than 50% of a first acquaintance), the rest is determined by how you walk, speak and stand. So, it is important for one to always make an effort where clothing is concerned, for guys, wearing a plain coloured shirt, well fitted jeans and proper shoes is quite essentials for simple style. Remember the sock rule! No white socks ever! The colour of your socks should a shade lighter than your shoes and a shade darker than your pants. While for ladies wearing matching colours, wearing for your body size and keeping it simple but bold is what makes a lady stylish. I will continue this topic in full perspective and analysis next week and advise some more as time goes.
One doesn’t really have to have a good fashion sense, but style is important for anyone in business, for those that demand attention or are in a position of leadership or want to followed in the respective field of interest. It is okay to make an effort; it will do your self esteem a whole good. I once read that when you look good, you feel good, and when you feel good, your positive energy is transferred onto those around you- which automatically makes the world a better place, don’t you think?
A friend of mine said to me yesterday, “how interesting would the world be if everyone made an effort to dress up”. Now that i think about it, it actually would.
The difference between the two is that fashion is very high end, comes and goes and can sometimes only be pulled off by the brave. On the other hand, style is more timeless, is necessary for all to have and can actually boost your self esteem. From a psychological perspective, people perceive you by the way you dress (more than 50% of a first acquaintance), the rest is determined by how you walk, speak and stand. So, it is important for one to always make an effort where clothing is concerned, for guys, wearing a plain coloured shirt, well fitted jeans and proper shoes is quite essentials for simple style. Remember the sock rule! No white socks ever! The colour of your socks should a shade lighter than your shoes and a shade darker than your pants. While for ladies wearing matching colours, wearing for your body size and keeping it simple but bold is what makes a lady stylish. I will continue this topic in full perspective and analysis next week and advise some more as time goes.
One doesn’t really have to have a good fashion sense, but style is important for anyone in business, for those that demand attention or are in a position of leadership or want to followed in the respective field of interest. It is okay to make an effort; it will do your self esteem a whole good. I once read that when you look good, you feel good, and when you feel good, your positive energy is transferred onto those around you- which automatically makes the world a better place, don’t you think?
A friend of mine said to me yesterday, “how interesting would the world be if everyone made an effort to dress up”. Now that i think about it, it actually would.
What is the colour of the wind?
Look around, smell the breeze and let the sun shine! In your mind, your soul and perhaps even pretend to be a plant and photosynthesise. We often take our lives for granted and before we know it, the week is over, a month gone by and then seasons change. We wake up in the morning, perform our daily routines, go to work or school, eat, do hobbies and sleep some more. Every day is just the same for everybody, just with different views, set ups and circumstances. But we all have common occurrences- puppets of the world.
Have you ever stopped and thought how different or better your life would be if you changed the way you do things, treat people, prayed, spoil your loved ones? If you would change one thing about your life, what would it be? Would you settle for less, is money more important, or do you prefer happiness over money? What is the colour of the wind, I ask? One would never be able to notice that wind, like many of life's substances, actually has a colour- even in your imagination that is. Next time, take some time to relax, do what you love most and do what you aim to achieve whilst changing a few things in your life and notice the colour of the wind.
There is so much more to life than living your life the same way you have for the last 5 years or decade. Notice the colour of the wind, the colour of my wind is transparent baby blue- what colour is your wind?
Have you ever stopped and thought how different or better your life would be if you changed the way you do things, treat people, prayed, spoil your loved ones? If you would change one thing about your life, what would it be? Would you settle for less, is money more important, or do you prefer happiness over money? What is the colour of the wind, I ask? One would never be able to notice that wind, like many of life's substances, actually has a colour- even in your imagination that is. Next time, take some time to relax, do what you love most and do what you aim to achieve whilst changing a few things in your life and notice the colour of the wind.
There is so much more to life than living your life the same way you have for the last 5 years or decade. Notice the colour of the wind, the colour of my wind is transparent baby blue- what colour is your wind?
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