Fashion vs Style

Fashion and style are often confused by most.  I understand that for many, not having either is the least important thing in their lives.  Yet, some of life's material things are treasured by some.  Let me take some time and share some of my fashion thoughts- a subject I truly enjoy.  I think everyone should have style, in fact there should be absolutely no excuse for people not to have some style if they have a daily encounter with people.

The difference between the two is that fashion is very high end, comes and goes and can sometimes only be pulled off by the brave.  On the other hand, style is more timeless, is necessary for all to have and can actually boost your self esteem.  From a psychological perspective, people perceive you by the way you dress (more than 50% of a first acquaintance), the rest is determined by how you walk, speak and stand.  So, it is important for one to always make an effort where clothing is concerned,  for guys, wearing a plain coloured shirt, well fitted jeans and proper shoes is quite essentials for simple style.  Remember the sock rule!  No white socks ever!  The colour of your socks should a shade lighter than your shoes and a shade darker than your pants. While for ladies wearing matching colours, wearing for your body size and keeping it simple but bold is what makes a lady stylish.  I will continue this topic in full perspective and analysis next week and advise some more as time goes.

One doesn’t really have to have a good fashion sense, but style is important for anyone in business, for those that demand attention or are in a position of leadership or want to followed in the respective field of interest.  It is okay to make an effort; it will do your self esteem a whole good.  I once read that when you look good, you feel good, and when you feel good, your positive energy is transferred onto those around you- which automatically makes the world a better place, don’t you think?

A friend of mine said to me yesterday, “how interesting would the world be if everyone made an effort to dress up”.  Now that i think about it, it actually would.